We have long socialized them into a corner that says MEN do not cry, but they do. I have spent many a moment recently watching my DAD cry with me as we try to get through the tough life experiences raising a special needs child; where his support of me is needed. MEN have soul, heart, mind without a doubt. It is time to be open to awaking to a real sense of what men are - strong, vigilant like that mighty oak tree, but deep inside they are vulnerable, caring, and loveable.
Let's take a moment to celebrate every day of the year those who go to work to provide for us, who sacrifice their time and energy when they come home, who want nothing more than our happiness. They are they who teach us how to change a tire, to have a great work ethic, who dry our tears during our first tragic break up, who's shoulder we can rely on when we cannot stand. These are men who fight back the tears when they need to be strong, wishing someone would stop to give them a hug.
There are times that mistakes are made, know that it is unintentional, it comes from love. A love that is rooted in being the best Dad, Father or emotional support. Often their heart and mind are creating more damage on the inside without you knowing. The things they do not wish to speak of, standing alone striving to be brave. Take time to hear them, soul, heart and mind and give that energy voice through your gentle care. In other words, be kind, be grateful, open your soul eyes and see them with feeling and heart. It is true that there are human beings who struggle and the output to the world is negative. Remember one important thing, that is not gender specific, it is human specific.
A hug is meaningful and stands the test of time. No matter how old they are or even you, a hug is something they offer at all stages of your life. They are not to busy to share what they have inside. Do not misjudge their heart, for like any other human being, it can falter, and sometimes break, leaving them vulnerable and misunderstood. Their roar or direction on how things are is only meant to protect those they love. Give them a moment to be that man, the protector for you. Celebrate that innate capacity in them, even if it feels uncomfortable for you because you do not understand why. The why behind the why is simple - they need to be true to who they are. That truth is they are wired to teach, protect, serve, give and provide.
They go to war for us, they love deeply and are Unsung Extraordinary Heroes Living Ordinary Lives. Love, be grateful for and give grace to the MEN in your life. Offer them generously your time but most of all forgiveness. In their humanness and heart they are imperfect too.
In appreciation of my life experiences, I say thank you to all the men who have crossed my path for how you have touch my life in such a meaningful way. It is with heart felt gratitude I dedicate this blog to my DAD. Who despite distance, time and many years still remains a man with courage, heart and wisdom. My life is who I am because of those moments, great and small you were there. You supported my dreams, provided a home, my first bike, my first driving lesson, and those life experiences where only you could understand my heart. I love you DAD. Thank you for being my Dad.
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